And that is how our species is perpetuated. The "effiminate" guys are shunted by most women, who many times may judge a main's "suitability" by his clothes, (yes, including suits) and who he is with.

The guys who try and solve and resolve are viewed differently than the male hunter with the chisled features.

The book the "Moral Animal" talks about this. In the end, the genes that get perpetuated are the George Bushes of the World.